Onuoha Chidera Stephenie's writings

Hey there ! Let me teach you a bit about Self doubt. Okay!! Everyone knows that SELF DOUBT means lacking confidence. It's simply just saying you think twice about doing stuff, because you feel  you don't have what it takes, you feel you are not good enough. It's that thing in you that keeps reminding you that you aren't GOOD ENOUGH!      Now that's real ugly.   We all have something in us that tells us we need to be more or something outside of ourselves to be satisfied and get stuff done, or to simply be Happy...       Well, I've being there. Everyone has. Its just one of those things pretty much everyone has to go through and experience. And according to research and some feedback  I've gotten, there are positive sides to self doubt; it gives us room for improvement! Usually when you are told that you are not good enough it means you have to go back to work on yourself and get better, it means you have to Step up your game and all. So it actually has it

Hey there!    A lot is happening in our world today,  changing the way we live our life and teaching us a lot of stuff! Like honestly, a lot has being learnt in these times (people are learning to be  more careful and healthier, some have learnt Gratitude, and a multitide have learnt to trust God! So everyone is picking up a thing or two from all this.    I was talking to my friend the other day, she was telling me how she is making plans to finally start a Clothing line she had always wanted to have. I was really shocked and suprised, so I laughed and was like "Baby girl, you're still on that! I thought you lost interest in that a long time ago". Then she was like "Honestly I thought did, but these qurantine times made me realize a lot". And coming to actually think of it, now that everyone is quarantined, a lot of people are suddenly doing what they have always wanted to do! (I mean my sister finally started taking her Art seriously) Yeah I get there is a

Holla Amigos ( lol)  Today I would be discussing what most of us fail to do! And I would be hitting the nail on the head to ensure you grab my point.          The truth is everyone wants to make the best out of life! Everyone wants to enjoy the ride with a lot of bumps on the way. No matter how much you plan, life always has plans too !   And when you cannot adjust to it, it leads to stress of different kinds it might even affect your mental health. The ability to adjust to the plans of life is a neccessary skill for humans, because you would need it a lot on the way.      You cannot change the stuff that happens to you, but at least you get to choose how to handle it. Yeah I get that life can hit you hard sometimes, and it is going to be pretty hard to adjust and all. I just need you to remember that the best kind of people smile in chaos, they hold their peace, breathe and keep moving! It's crazy and quite difficult but it is the only thing you can actually do. Time would

Hey y'all Today I would be sharing one of my latest discoveries. I saw this picture recently that says:                       •          •          •          • IN OTHER TO HEAL FROM ANY KIND OF PAIN YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT FEW DO - TALK ABOUT IT ( EVEN IF IT'S JUST TO THE AIR    TALK ABOUT IT ...     WHISPER IT..       DRIFT IT OUT OF YOUR BEING).                      •          •          •          •      I could releate a lot to it and I decided to share because I know this can help someone a whole lot because it helped me.      I can testify that this works a lot and can help you out of any situation. We all have one thing or the other battling with our peace of mind. Life is one heck of a ride with loop holes at one point or the other, so it's no suprise if our peace of mind is not secured at some point. But the thing now is learning to how to let all our problems and worries out and restore our peace of mind. We've probably all heard the saying &

Hello Everyone! I hope y'all are surviving and coping with life! Everything is only going to get better Trust me! It's being a while. I have being trying to figure and sort things out on ways to move forward here, I was just carried away with that and didn't even realize that I putting my blog on hold and leaving y'all hanging........ Well, My bad So I'm back now! And today I would be sharing a life changing lesson that I have learnt.       You see, every person has a plan! We all have visions and dreams for ourselves and we know the kind of lives we want to live and all that. We all know where we want to be at every point in life. And most times things don't always go as planned.     Personally I am not where I want to be ( honestly it breaks my heart anytime I think about it). when I medidate about it, a lot comes to mind ( I would be like, maybe I am working my but out like others or something, sometimes I even think it's not attainable. A lot

" Whatever the human mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve".        Hello beautiful people!  So, I would be sharing a little article with you all today. It's something I am still learning and trying to master and it's one sure way of making the human journey a beautiful one.  (Trust me)         Humans are God's greatest creation, like seriously, he took time and did a lot of wonders in the creation of man. You see,the human mind is powerful. we must learn to realize the power of our mind : "Whatever the human mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve". It all depends on you and your mindset, we actually have the power to change situations.  our minds are alligned with the universe, so what ever you believe would happen, eventually happens. It's really an amazing thing. You see, you and I possess so much power and most times we tend to forget when those hard times come, well it's not our fault it's only in the human n