Onuoha Chidera Stephenie's writings

Hello Family,                I'm really Grateful to God on how far I have gone with this blog. I appreciate you guys so much. Thank you for all your support so far, thanks for reading , thanks for commenting, thanks for all the feedback, thank you for subscribing, thank you for every really the support encourages me a lot. I know I've being able to put a smile on your face somehow.         I want to carry you guys along!SO I MOVED MY BLOG TO WORDPRESS.COM .  I am trying to be more  professional so I can reach out to more people ( you feel me ?). The whole point of life is Growth! We have to make sure that we are always a step ahead in getting to where we want to be ( DON'T BE STAGNANT). That's exactly what I am doing . A friend of mine taught me something, he says " No matter how far you go, or how big you become in life, NEVER forget where you started frim and the people you started with" ( One of the best things I h...

Hey there ! Let me teach you a bit about Self doubt. Okay!! Everyone knows that SELF DOUBT means lacking confidence. It's simply just saying you think twice about doing stuff, because you feel  you don't have what it takes, you feel you are not good enough. It's that thing in you that keeps reminding you that you aren't GOOD ENOUGH!      Now that's real ugly.   We all have something in us that tells us we need to be more or something outside of ourselves to be satisfied and get stuff done, or to simply be Happy...       Well, I've being there. Everyone has. Its just one of those things pretty much everyone has to go through and experience. And according to research and some feedback  I've gotten, there are positive sides to self doubt; it gives us room for improvement! Usually when you are told that you are not good enough it means you have to go back to work on yourself and get better, it means you have to Step up your game and all. So it ac...

Hey there!    A lot is happening in our world today,  changing the way we live our life and teaching us a lot of stuff! Like honestly, a lot has being learnt in these times (people are learning to be  more careful and healthier, some have learnt Gratitude, and a multitide have learnt to trust God! So everyone is picking up a thing or two from all this.    I was talking to my friend the other day, she was telling me how she is making plans to finally start a Clothing line she had always wanted to have. I was really shocked and suprised, so I laughed and was like "Baby girl, you're still on that! I thought you lost interest in that a long time ago". Then she was like "Honestly I thought did, but these qurantine times made me realize a lot". And coming to actually think of it, now that everyone is quarantined, a lot of people are suddenly doing what they have always wanted to do! (I mean my sister finally started taking her Art seriously) Yeah I get there ...

Holla Amigos ( lol)  Today I would be discussing what most of us fail to do! And I would be hitting the nail on the head to ensure you grab my point.          The truth is everyone wants to make the best out of life! Everyone wants to enjoy the ride with a lot of bumps on the way. No matter how much you plan, life always has plans too !   And when you cannot adjust to it, it leads to stress of different kinds it might even affect your mental health. The ability to adjust to the plans of life is a neccessary skill for humans, because you would need it a lot on the way.      You cannot change the stuff that happens to you, but at least you get to choose how to handle it. Yeah I get that life can hit you hard sometimes, and it is going to be pretty hard to adjust and all. I just need you to remember that the best kind of people smile in chaos, they hold their peace, breathe and keep moving! It's crazy and quite difficult but it ...

Hey y'all Today I would be sharing one of my latest discoveries. I saw this picture recently that says:                       •          •          •          • IN OTHER TO HEAL FROM ANY KIND OF PAIN YOU HAVE TO DO WHAT FEW DO - TALK ABOUT IT ( EVEN IF IT'S JUST TO THE AIR    TALK ABOUT IT ...     WHISPER IT..       DRIFT IT OUT OF YOUR BEING).                      •          •          •          •      I could releate a lot to it and I decided to share because I know this can help someone a whole lot because it helped me.      I can testify that this works a lot and can help you out of any situation. We all have one thing or the other battling w...

Hello Everyone! I hope y'all are surviving and coping with life! Everything is only going to get better Trust me! It's being a while. I have being trying to figure and sort things out on ways to move forward here, I was just carried away with that and didn't even realize that I putting my blog on hold and leaving y'all hanging........ Well, My bad So I'm back now! And today I would be sharing a life changing lesson that I have learnt.       You see, every person has a plan! We all have visions and dreams for ourselves and we know the kind of lives we want to live and all that. We all know where we want to be at every point in life. And most times things don't always go as planned.     Personally I am not where I want to be ( honestly it breaks my heart anytime I think about it). when I medidate about it, a lot comes to mind ( I would be like, maybe I am working my but out like others or something, sometimes I even think it's not attainable. A lot ...

" Whatever the human mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve".        Hello beautiful people!  So, I would be sharing a little article with you all today. It's something I am still learning and trying to master and it's one sure way of making the human journey a beautiful one.  (Trust me)         Humans are God's greatest creation, like seriously, he took time and did a lot of wonders in the creation of man. You see,the human mind is powerful. we must learn to realize the power of our mind : "Whatever the human mind can conceive and believe, it can achieve". It all depends on you and your mindset, we actually have the power to change situations.  our minds are alligned with the universe, so what ever you believe would happen, eventually happens. It's really an amazing thing. You see, you and I possess so much power and most times we tend to forget when those hard times come, well it's not our fault it's only in t...

 Hey people!  Finally, it's the end of the year !!      So far so great! This post is basically talking about some of the lessons learnt in 2019 . We live and we learn, so it's good to highlight the lessons we learnt at each point to guide our actions, decisions, and choices in the years to come.        So I did a survey asking my friends on what 2019 taught them, and the feedback was Great! I noticed a lot of similar replies: some people talked about how this year taught them self-reliance, and not to depend on anyone or expect a lot from others!(this one was pretty loud); some said it opened their eyes to what life is really all about - emphasizing the fact that life ain't a bed of roses; it taught some pain and difficult times, they felt like nothing was getting better (but eventually, it ended in joy). It made people realize that tough times and storms are inevitable - it is how you handle it that makes the difference. It made peop...

I'm here again!!! Get ready to be amazed.    Life is an avenue where we learn a lot, be open to anything new that comes your way. You're living you're learning, you can't know everything despite whatever point in life you're in, you may think that you know a lot because of your experience but life always has Something new to teach you.    The term success is relative The dictionary says it's the accomplishment of an aim or purpose. Some people would say it means fulfilment, achieving all your dreams and goals. Others would say it means making it big, being rich and famous. Now this is the question What does success mean to you??? You know the answer to this question is important, because it determimes the way you approach life and serves as a bases for your decision making. Like I said the term success is relative it depends on your point of view. So the point of this post is actually to tell you what true success should really be about. ...

Hey you!       I think's its a beautiful thing that the same God that made everything looked at the world and saw a reason to make YOU. I mean, that's enough reason to be proud . It's reminds you that you are here for a reason, that is why it's important for you to stay true to who you are and just be yourself, that way you are giving your reason a meaning.          Comparism is what kills us! But it's only normal because humans are always in the habit of needing more than what they have already, that's because no one wants to miss out on anything, everyone wants to be winning one way or the another. But I need you to understand that we can't all be the same, it wouldn't make sense. The world is a beautiful place, because it's filled with different people having different personalities and being themselves. Our differences is what makes life Beautiful. DON'T COMPARE YOUR STORY WITH OTHERS! we are all different people with different destines he...

Hello      I am not back yet I just wanted to bless you with some good news.  This is a reminder that no matter what you might be going through, things are yet to fall in place. Always remember that there is light at the end of the tunnel and the darkest days come before your dawn. Trust and believe in the days ahead of you to give you answers to certain things. I hope the rest of your life is filled with so much Happiness and joy.          Remember                  The best is yet to come !!!!                                                                                                            Chideerah ❤ Ps: ...

I am here again! I wouldn't say that I am going to blow your minds, but to let you see things clearly and to leave your heart fulfilled today.       So where to start from.....     At the beginning of this year I gave y'all a new year motivation basically talking about the gift of a brand new day and why we should appreciate life a little bit more, so that's what I am talking about today. I am leaving a little encouraging message about hope.      We have a lot to be grateful for you know. Life is a pricless gift and God has really given us all we need. We need to be grateful for the fact that we are alive because no matter how bad life might be, the fact that we are still breathing means a lot more than you know. Yeah, I get life is not perfect and I may not even understand what you have been through or what you have been putting up with, but I would like you to know that there is always hope.      A saying I admire a lot go...

   Hi everyone so I am here again a little late, my bad!!! . But  I am going to blow your minds today that is for sure.        The truth of feeling alive in this journey called life is living Forever young. Allowing the heart to never die is living Forever young.            In the world we live in "a lot of people live but aren't truly alive". This statement might confuse you but it is what it is. Humans have experienced a lot that has broken us and might have made us forget a lot. Well we would get to understand what I am talking about better.         I told myself the essense of starting this blog was to share my ideas and things I have learnt with the world ( my thoughts basically) .         When talking about   "Forever young"  one thing comes to our mind , a lot would say it just means being young in mind and heart even when you are old and all that, and I guess th...

Hello guys !!!!!! Here is a quick one. I thought about something earlier , it something  I am learning and I would like to share it with you guys.       We are all Blessed!!! You know that,  and it is important for us to acknoweldge that and be Grateful . We all have this mentality that we only need to be Grateful when something good happens to us, maybe we passed a test , got our dream job or finally got what we have always wanted.               Gradititude is super important and you don't need to wait on something really big to happen to be Grateful. Be grateful for the big things, the small things and everything inbetween . Be Happy and Grateful in the good times and bad times, in the times you win and the times you fall . Be grateful and thankful through out life. Gratitude is acknowledging blessings in your life . No matter how you may see life,one thing is sure you are Blessed no matter where you find yourself. I me...

Hello people!!!   It's chidera again here to bless you again with my words. I am sorry this post is coming late It took me quite a while to put the pieces of inspiration together and put down something beautiful. But you guys are really going to enjoy this one trust me.   You know the mysteries of this world continue to suprise me in so many forms.There are a lot of things we need to learn and know to truly reach our full potential and become the hero's of our own story.       Today I would be sharing my thoughts on what I consider as  the greatest power we pocess that is SELF CONFIDENCE ... Okay short story!!!! I remember sometime in 2017 before my matriculation ceremony into the university. I went out with my mum to pick a dress. My mum picked out a dress for me and I also agreed that it was lovely, I put it on and it was a perfect fit, so why not, I bought it. We took it home I tried it on for my siblings to have a look, I stood there flaunti...

   A Great woman once said the beauty of a woman is not in a facial mode rather the beauty of a woman is reflected in her soul.        Basically a woman can be seen as a person created in the image and likeness of God but made from man's rib. To know a vitrious woman is determined by her relationship with God.  In the book of Peter, God says that your beauty should not come from  wearing fine apparel, fine gold, or ornament rather let it come from the hidden spirit of the heart with the incorruptible beauty of a gentle and quiet spirit which is seen as beauty in the sight of God. The Real beauty of a woman is not determined by looking into a mirror, It comes from looking deep inside oneself to discover what makes up the heart because that's where the true beauty of a woman lies. The true beauty of a woman is not determined by her outward apperance rather it comes from what she possesses. Truly a woman should be beautiful in and out. True b...

Hello people !!!!! This is chidera again You can't Imagine how bad I feel for releasing this post late after I promised to keep in touch this year. I am really sorry , the truth is it took quite sometimes to put the pieces of inspiration I had in my head down and turn it into something  mind blowing . I finally have it and I am ready to share.     You know you can just explode and destroy or remove anything that is bringing you down. In life we have our up's and down's there are times we feel like we are flying and other times we feel like we are being stepped on. The truth is a lot of people would doubt you in this world they may look down on you and doubt your ability, but of course it's not their fault its only normal but it's up to you to show them what you have got ' Don't get me wrong I am not saying you need to prove yourself to anybody, I am just saying that people may doubt or belittle you if you let them too. That's why you need to show the...

    Hello beautiful people! It's chidera again Here to bless you with my words. Now today we are going to explore the heartbeat of art, one of the most beautiful things God gave us is MUSIC. I can assume that a lot might be going on in your head right now and you're like what about music. It may not sound like there is much to talk about, but trust me there is a lot to understand . Music is everything, come to think of it a world without  music can be seen as a world with no life, a life with no colour, beauty, excitement. Yup! That's a world with no life.       And it is true that the beauty of music is experienced by all. Music is what we all feel in our hearts and it speaks to us in different ways .It's the power of that little tune or inspiring sound and feeling that makes us do incredible things, it has that motivating rhythm that makes us feel like that there is nothing that we can't do .Music is indeed a beautiful thing and goes deeper than you c...

Hello people! Here I am again. In my last post I said that you all would be seeing me more in 2019 so I'm trying my best to keep to my words. Here I am again to bless the days you have ahead with the lesson I am about to teach you today.    God our Creator has made each and everyone complete and whole in a way that was meant for them. This means that all you have and all you are in this life is indeed perfect, there is no need to be in need of more. But looking at our world today we are never satisfied, humans are always in the habit of needing more than what we already have, and once they are not getting what they want, it turns into sadness and worries, they feel that they are not enough, or they are not living up to expectations. This is exactly what kills us. We must always recognize the fact that we are enough and we are worth everything, have no desire to be like anyone else . Be Happy with who you are and all that God has given you. God himself said "my child be free...

Hello people Happy New year  I know I have been out for a while and all but I am back now , that attitude was so last year so it's long gone . So your going to be seeing me a lot in 2019 by God's Grace.     So I am back here now with a new year motivation. I Know most people are not really into that new year resolution and all but that doesn't mean we should be ignorant to  everything that comes with that motive . We should be opened to new ideas and knowledge but that's by the way so moving on to the point So in my last post I emphasized on the fact that I am still growing and still learning from life. So basically I am just going to be sharing some of the little things I have learn't from life .           You know this life is Beautiful and God has made so much available for us we need to be more Thankful you know. I want to Enlighten us more on the gift of a new day and why we should be grateful for the fact that where are still al...